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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-17 07:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2876 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2876 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Boxtrolls]


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[One Piece]


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[Hockey RPF, Patrick Kane]


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05.
[The Silmarillion]


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[Meghan Trainor: All About That Bass]


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[Radiant Historia]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Meghan Trainor]


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[Taylor Swift]



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[Star Wars]













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ariakas: (Default)

Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] ariakas 2014-11-18 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
I've found that "let's be friends" basically never works unless the split was amicable and mutual. If it was one-sided, the break-up-ee always either acts like an asshole or constantly tries to get back together. Or starts as the latter and gradually morphs into the former when he realizes that it's not going to happen, and tells all of your friends how you "disrespected" him by breaking up with him and how they have to not hang out with you anymore.

Then he has a huge freakout when they obviously don't because you didn't do anything wrong and you were a terrible couple to begin with and everyone knew it and takes everyone he knows off of his Facebook page because they refuse to cut off all contact with you and moves to Montreal to work in porn.

Well, something like that anyway.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
Um, so this may have actually happened to me...
ariakas: (Default)

Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] ariakas 2014-11-18 09:07 am (UTC)(link)
Lol are you my ex-boyfriend.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
No, but from the sounds of it we may have dated the same guy.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it depends on when you try to be friends again, too. You can't do it out of the gate if the split's anything other than harmonious, because there's still hard feelings there - at least one party's going to be hurt by a non-mutual breakup, and depending on the reasoning, both parties might be nursing bruised feelings.

If you decide to take the friends route after the hurt feelings have had time to heal, it can work out a lot better. It's trying to force it immediately that causes a lot of the problems.