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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-17 07:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2876 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2876 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Boxtrolls]


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03.
[One Piece]


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04.
[Hockey RPF, Patrick Kane]


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05.
[The Silmarillion]


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06.
[Meghan Trainor: All About That Bass]


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07.
[Radiant Historia]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Meghan Trainor]


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10.
[Taylor Swift]



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[Star Wars]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #411.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] aboutelle 2014-11-18 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Before I got into my first relationship I always thought "if you were a couple you should also be able to stay friends after it's over because there must have been a reason you once loved each other, right?" But now, after two relationships, I've ended up wanting your first option both times because there was also a reason we broke up and that overshadows most oft the good memories for me.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Same over here. Our breakup was mutual and amicable and we were decently friends for about a year, but then it gradually fell apart until I absolutely loathed her. It would have been rougher initially to cut off contact from the start, but I think it would have been less painful in the long run. I still harbor a lot of actively negative feelings I'd rather be rid of.