[ SECRET POST #2888 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2888 ⌋

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Comments

Shitty friend anon

[(Anonymous)]

After an awkward discussion of no it looks like I will be. I cant wait.

Re: Shitty friend anon

[(Anonymous)]

Can you link to the other post? I must have missed this.

Re: Shitty friend anon

[(Anonymous)]

Nothing major, I was just really stressing out at the thought of living with a pushy-sometimes-shitty friend

http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/1119286.html?thread=796122166#cmt796122166

Tbh I have also been trying to distance myself from her this year. People have been pointing out for years she's a bit of a shitty friend and this year has brought lots of changes in my life and I've also been realising that no, I wasn't being petty, she was being shitty.

Earlier this week when I had to bail on her because of work I got a bunch of text messages on how much of a bad friend I was, but the minute I agree to something it's all "you're such a good friends" and I don't like all the switching back and forth between treatements but if I tell her she's upsetting me it becomes all about her feelings so.

Everything but casual/acquaintance type hang outs end up so stressful and I just dread seeing her. Especially in her house, cause she always wants to be in her dark, messy house and then kicks me out if we disagree on things. Or she wants to go out to bars then be all borderline girlfriend/clingy/in my lap and I hate that. I prefer neutral grounds like public spaces, free social events and the like. And I don't like that she keeps trying to act like my girlfriend when she's not.

Sorry, frustrated venting. Today's conversations included insulting my future dog-breed choices and that I spend too much time in the gym.

I just want to distance myself from her. She's dropped me without a word for years at a time, but now I'm shitty for not hanging out with her fortnightly?

Re: Shitty friend anon

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I remember the other thread and see no reason to keep this girl as a friend. She's horribly selfish and it doesn't sound like this relationship has any plus side.