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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-08 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2897 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2897 ⌋

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[personal profile] grausam 2014-12-09 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
what I like about xeno x human pairs and smut, is them coming to terms with the creepy "other". I want one of them to see the xeno bits as weird, gross, off-putting, alien, etc at first, but never be disrespectful.

And then they get into it because they of course luuuv their partner and then find the xeno bits sexy by being open for it and loving their partners sexual expression.

not that all xeno fic is like that, but many fics which are about finding tentacles sexy still have elements of learning to relate to and to appreciate "the other", right?
In a way it's easier and safer to read xeno than to delve into the many ways existing "otherness" get fetishized or mistreated in sexual contexts. And sometimes you just want that otherness to be acknowledged!
So I don't think it's problematic, OP. Creeps and assholes may misuse the tropes, but you feeling more ok is much more important.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-09 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, this is a lovely secret. It's all about (self)acceptance of different types of body.

Back to my alien tentacle mating fic now...
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apropos tentacles

[personal profile] grausam 2014-12-09 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
only now I realize with which icon I've been posting this

o ops