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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2906 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2906 ⌋

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Re: unpopular opinions

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-12-18 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't date someone who I knew had cheated, because the chances he'd cheat on me would be MUCH higher than otherwise.

I do agree that if it's a shorter-term relationship, it's less devastating, but any number of other things are also less devastating. I had a short-term bf and a long-term bf pull similar pretending-I-don't-exist anymore stunts, and the former hurt me a lot less in the long run because I wasn't as attached to him - though the visceral hurt when it first happened was more or less the same. Recovery was just much easier and faster (and I'm glad he showed his true colors after two weeks, I honestly feel like I dodged a bullet with him).