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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2906 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2906 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-12-20 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
Can we stop saying "rape fantasy"?

You're not fantasizing about being raped. Because you cannot enjoy being raped. That is the distinguishing point between consensual and nonconsensual sex.

Calling it a "rape fantasy" gives more fuel to rape apologists saying things like "girls really want it deep down because LOOK SO MANY HAVE FANTASIES ABOUT BEING RAPED so how are the men supposed to know that no REALLY means no and not 'oh nooo~ no~~~~'???"

It's a ravishment fantasy. It's a submission fantasy. It's a "I want you to just dominate me" fantasy.

"Rape fantasy" is an oxymoron.