[ SECRET POST #2910 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2910 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Except one of the common comments by gay guys about slash fanfiction is that they often don't do as much prep and might actually use spit as lube.

[(Anonymous)]

But this isn't slash fiction…

And I've already have two people tell me that it can be enough prep so…which is it?

[(Anonymous)]

Some guys generate enough precum if their partner is relaxed and eager they can go in dry or with a minimal amount of lube or foreplay. It just depends. The scissoring and all of that is a trope that while not 100% inaccurate, isn't strictly mandatory either.

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sa:

Uh, guess my comment wasn't clear. I mean they say that in real life many guys don't do much prep and use spit, while most slash writers always include loads of both and some think 3 fingers + a bottle of lube is the only way to do anal.

[(Anonymous)]

That's because the fic writers are writing a trope. And for some readers the prep is as big a deal as the main event.

[(Anonymous)]

sa:

Yes, I know, and I don't have any issues with that in slash, I wasn't dissing it. Just saying that some people read that trope and think it's how it must work in RL.

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DA

Yes, this. I've seen people engage in a huge wankfest (on fanficrants I think) about how much prep is really necessary and were 100% basing their argument on all the damn fanfic they'd read. Because if it's in fic, it MUST be accurate...

I mean, I really enjoy reading about loving descriptions of careful prep and all the fingers and messy lube (it's mostly the fingering, I'll admit) in my fic - but... that's not what I enjoy in real life when it comes to actually having anal sex. IRL it's like, prep? What prep? Stick the damn thing in already...

[(Anonymous)]

It's funny because I remember when slash fic was criticized for not having ENOUGH prep and writers were sporked for just having two characters going at it as soon as they jumped into bed. Oh how the times have changed -- we've swung completely the other way.

[(Anonymous)]

I think I must have been thrown by the 'which is it' part of your comment.

[(Anonymous)]

(Same anon you're replying to)

The "which is it" comment was by the anon I replied to, though.

[(Anonymous)]

This is going to sound weird, but I would rather people were going away from fic thinking more preperation was required rather than too little. I hate the idea of people trying it for the first time with just spit and a shove. Or even worse, blood. D:

[(Anonymous)]

ia

and in fanfics if the top knows the bottom is a virgin and doesn't at least attempt to prep first, I'm going to think he's an asshole

[(Anonymous)]

I once read a fic with a brutal first-time anal scene where there was blood everywhere, all running down the receiver's legs and shit. It was awful. Then again, it was meant to be.

[(Anonymous)]

You...read that comment totally backwards.

[(Anonymous)]

DA to be fair so did I