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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-21 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2910 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2910 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Actually, it can be.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
The first time?

Yeesh. I mean, I guess everyone's physiology is different, but for me I can say it wouldn't be. Maybe I shouldn't generalize but it makes me cringe to think of going at it my first time with that little prep.

Everyone's different, I suppose.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
DA: Yeah, it's just a matter of ymmv. I know I have incredible trouble with it and can't even imagine not using a copious amount of lube, but I have friends who had no trouble even in their first time, needing no lube.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-12-21 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends on how turned on you are too, maybe? All I know is I've had drunken anal sex using no lube with no ill effects and I happened to be really turned on at the time. Conversely, I was sober and not very turned on once, and no amount of lube or prep could get me to open up enough to insert penis; and when we forced it, it hurt like fuck.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't mind my asking, but what's your gender and size? I just wonder if that makes a difference. I'm a 5'2" (157.48 cm) female and I wonder if maybe men or taller people would have less trouble in this department.

If you'd rather not answer, please don't feel like you have to. It's just that while I don't doubt your story, I just can't picture it ever working or being true for me.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Someone else's experience really isn't relevant; it's all about you and your partner. Also your moods, the position you choose to partake in and so on. Lots of small girls enjoy anal. Lots of them don't. It just depends. Usually on the moment.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-12-21 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, this too.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2014-12-21 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Female, about 5'5. I also do anal pretty often, so that probably helps too. Anal just isn't for some people though.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Might just be that I'm an anxious person in general. I've been told that psychological blocks are a bigger hindrance than any physical blocks in this area. I still can't help but cringe when I watch that scene though which I guess is just me projecting my discomfort.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
That's true of vaginal sex as well. If you're nervous and tense you're probably not going to get wet and relaxed. Penetration will be unenjoyable at best. Take your time, enjoy some foreplay and try again later.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-12-21 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
They sort of would be - you really DO need to relax. Then again, sometimes the butt's just not in the mood even if you are. And it's better to just call it quits then and just tr another day.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
SA: Yep, that falls in line with my experiences and those ones I've heard. Though experience and "everyone's body is different" also counts. Even with more experience and being turned on, I still don't find it as easy as those friends, or as easy as a friend who had lots of trouble in the beginning but now can do it at the drop of a hat.
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TMI

[personal profile] ariakas 2014-12-22 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
My first time: no prep, no lube.

While it was surprising because I wasn't ready (the result of fumbling around in the dark doggie style and going in the wrong hole) it didn't really hurt. At least, only a fraction as much as my first time with PV. I wasn't drunk - and really, when I think about it, I've taken far bigger shits than anyone's dick could possibly be, while I'd never had anything close to that size in the other hole before >>

(For the record, after my ?! the dude apologized profusely.)

Re: TMI

(Anonymous) 2014-12-22 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Accidental anal is the worst thing. I was intensely surprised and it caused a hell of a lot of pain, like I was being torn apart from the inside by something with flame. There were tears and copious cursing on my part.

(I had also never seen that particular partner more contrite and apologetic about anything ever before or since. Dude felt bad.)
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Re: TMI

[personal profile] ariakas 2014-12-22 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
being torn apart from the inside by something with flame

Have you ever... actually had part of your body torn up? Or lit on fire? I'm not minimizing your experience here, but I've had third degree burns before and the sensation is precisely 0% like having something shoved up your ass.