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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-24 06:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2913 ]


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Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2014-12-25 01:05 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - Have you ever tried visiting them on a non-holiday, or asking them to do so? Or is that not an option? :/ Sounds like it sucks, though. I do hope your sister's husband isn't like his family. (Though you'd wonder why he would put up with that. Normally I'm all for putting family before romance, but if my family treated my husband and his family like that, they'd have to answer to me.)
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Re: Rant thread!

[personal profile] ginainthekingsroad 2014-12-25 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
With the exception of the wedding, which was in SoCal where they met, none of this has occurred while we were actually there with them. Obviously we are terrible people because we aren't driving 300 miles to see them every weekend. :( We would have been there for the birthday, but my dad was having a serious health issue and couldn't travel, not like that matters at all! *eyeroll*

The husband is not at all like his family, he is extremely laid-back and adaptable. The thing is, I think his family has some weird expectations of him based on what he was like as a teen (gothy and way more into media) and they think my sister has ~changed~ him; when really he's just grown up and matured like a normal person and they (especially his brother) haven't.

The other problem is that if the husband tells his mom anything about his feelings or how he wishes things were, it's immediately going to be distorted by being passed from the mother, to the brother's wife, to the brother. So he doesn't even have support there. :( I know he'd just like everybody to be friends.