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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-26 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2915 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2915 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Question about friending memes

(Anonymous) 2014-12-27 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I have the same issue. I recently participated, and of the 5 or 6 people who added me, they all gave me friends access... to things I just wasn't comfortable/interested in reading.

I felt like a shit for dropping two of them from my circle -- they wrote long posts about depression, suicide, health problems, needing money, and so on .. but I have friends already who I support through such things, I just can't take in every stray cat that meows at me. (I feel like a complete shithead for saying that, but it is true.)

I do wish that more people did fandom posts = public, IRL posts = flocked.

Re: Question about friending memes

(Anonymous) 2014-12-27 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
It's hard too because you don't know what to say.

Re: Question about friending memes

(Anonymous) 2014-12-27 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people don't seem to understand that you don't just dump the dirty details of your life onto someone you've just met. Those are the kind of things you save for closer friends, not the person you're in line behind at the grocery store or someone you met on a friending meme.

It's called oversharing, and it is no bueno. I dump people the moment they start doing that because that is a sure sign of an emotional black hole.

Re: Question about friending memes

(Anonymous) 2014-12-27 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
not the person you're in line behind at the grocery store or someone you met on a friending meme.

NAYRT, but exactly. You let people in on those things as you grow closer to them. And even then you don't make them hear about it every single time you talk.

Re: Question about friending memes

(Anonymous) 2014-12-27 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
IA. That's what filters are for, and on LJ at least it's possible to create different levels of filters for your posts. Not sure why people wouldn't do this.