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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-26 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2915 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2915 ⌋

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Re: It isn't that important, get over it...

[personal profile] ultionum 2014-12-27 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you ever openly expressed that you're not interested in relationships? Or worse--expressing that you're okay with romantic ones, but not sexual ones? You're considered a prude and people seem to short circuit over it.

Re: It isn't that important, get over it...

(Anonymous) 2014-12-28 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
This is old now, but yeah, people seem to really have a problem with it. The last time the conversation came up it went like this:

Her: So, do you have a boyfriend?
Me: Nope.
Her: Well, why not?
Me: I don't want one.
Her: How come?
Me: Eh, men are too much trouble. *trying to play it off as a joke because I'm at work and this isn't the time or place, plus I barely know her and frankly don't think it's any of her business*
Her: Not if you find the right guy!
Me: Oh, I have a really hard time finding guys I'm compatible with. *meaning 'also asexual' but I don't want to come out and say that because again, it isn't an appropriate setting, and I just really don't feel like getting into it with her*
Her: But my husband and I are complete opposites, we aren't compatible at all, and we've been together for 30 years! It doesn't matter whether you're compatible!

Luckily right then my boss needed me for something and I got to leave, but seriously...if you really feel like it's important to know whether or not someone's in a relationship (and I really question why it's so important) at least drop it when they say they're not and don't want to be. People are just annoying.