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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-05 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2924 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2924 ⌋

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Re: Asexuality in 'real life'

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-06 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
Enh, I honestly try to avoid the conversation entirely, because I sorta straddle the gay/ace line and am NOT interested in all the jokes people like to make about that. (Yes, yes, a gay man who has very limited interest in men, durr hurr hurr, you so clever.) These days, most of my friends know who and what I am and don't give a fuck.

Back when I DID have people badgering me about it, I left it as, "I'm not into that." And if people kept whining about it, I stopped being around them. I am not obligated to explain my sexuality to anyone unless I'm in a relationship with them.

A friend of mine who's more traditionally ace read a book about it that she said helped a lot? The Invisible Orientation or something? I have no idea how good it is myself, but coming out by throwing a book/site at someone and then running away is a classic!

Re: Asexuality in 'real life'

(Anonymous) 2015-01-06 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Just dropping in to give you points for "multi."
lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (pride)

Re: Asexuality in 'real life'

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-06 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh? You multi too?

Re: Asexuality in 'real life'

(Anonymous) 2015-01-07 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. :)
lb_lee: A happy little brain with a bandage on it, enclosed within a circle with the words LB Lee. (pride)

Re: Asexuality in 'real life'

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-07 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Woo! We ain't the only one!

You can come hang out on our DW if you like. Guaranteed no harassment or trolls over it! (Though a lot of the personal stuff is filtered, for obvious reasons.)