[ SECRET POST #2925 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2925 ⌋

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Comments

[a_potato]

Why can't you express your feelings of attraction/desire? What do you feel when you think about doing so? Does it make you anxious? Does it make you feel guilt or shame?

Our society is really weird. It presents sex as something that's exciting and to be sought after, but it also presents it as something that's bad and dirty, especially if you're a woman. That doesn't exactly lend itself to...balance. You're not abnormal by any means, but it's probably worth sitting down and thinking about why saying, "yeah, he's hot" makes you uncomfortable.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

I've been thinking about the reason behind this for a long time. I guess I do feel guilty for liking someone, like I shouldn't. I feel like if I share my thoughts on that with anyone they'll think either a) "LOL she thinks he's hot, like he'd ever look at her twice" or b) LOL she thinks he's hot, is she blind or what". I -know- it's irrational, that's why it started to bother me. Like, for once, I'd like to actually be able to say YES that guy is fucking adorable.

My taste in men has always been slighly on the not conventionally hot side, so that makes it even harder because I just go "I know, right" when someone makes a not very flattering comment about someone I find the cutest thing ever. I just wanna slap myself sometimes.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

My personal anxiety over this comes from my shit-ass self esteem (I feel uncomfortable saying people are attractive because I feel like if they knew they'd be grossed out that someone like me thinks they're hot regardless of whether it's even possible or not) so... I know how that is, feeling like I shouldn't. It sucks. =/