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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-06 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2925 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2925 ⌋

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[personal profile] diabolicalfiend 2015-01-07 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm about your age and I don't find it comfortable to talk about. It's less a shame reaction as... I'm feeling that people either don't care, or are going to box me into one of those categories that people seem absolutely intent on keeping people in. Talking about sex feels so restrictive. Often my 'meh' is less than a reaction to sex itself, and more about the discussion. And it's not even that I don't like the talking about it I just wish it didn't feel the chore it is.

And as for 'not normal'? I don't know. 'Normal' is a word often used to hurt people and rarely actually useful.

Of course it should be easier for us to talk about finding so and so attractive. But is that really our issue or the issue of a society where so much importance and outright contradiction is put on the discussion that it's so fraught or dreary for us to engage in?