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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-07 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2926 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2926 ⌋

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Re: Advice Thread

[personal profile] siofrabunnies 2015-01-08 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Bad place emotionally? I agree pretty heavily with 1st anon. Helping others, while still giving some time to yourself, is a great boost for a lot of people. It's not a 100%, absolute rule or anything, but it's up there.

Bad place in a physical/financial sense is a harder deal. Don't help someone financially unless you can afford to lose it. Even if they are a good person and intend to return, it's no guarantee that they'll be able to.

When it comes to someone not taking problems seriously, I've had a lot of luck saying, "I get that this isn't important to to, but it is to me. I need you to respect that fact." If they still don't, then don't go to them for help.

I hope whatever it is works out.