[ SECRET POST #2926 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2926 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Nicest way to tell people I need space?

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you for bringing this perspective, I'm so suffocated with stress right now I've been having a hard time making heads or tails on how to deal with the situation so this is appreciated.

You are probably right that no matter how gently I try to explain, she's not going to take it well and I just have to face that.

You're right that no explanation or a vague explanation will just make it easier for her to think it's a personal slight. :/ I'm just really bad at talking about anything related to my history of abuse, the conversations that follow that topic are always awkward and painful so I always do my best to avoid them. I mostly just don't want her to see how scared I am right now. But I'll try to give her a better explanation.

She has possibly one other person she can lean on right now, but that might be it. You're completely right that it's never healthy to have just one person to lean on. I'll keep this in mind and see if she has another support besides me because I highly doubt I'm a good one right now.

Thank you!

Re: Nicest way to tell people I need space?

[diet_poison]

You're welcome, and I hope it helps in some way.

It sounds like you're in a bad place right now and I hope it gets better very, very soon. *hugs if wanted*