[ SECRET POST #2930 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Comments

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, that still sounds like rape to me.

However you look at it, this person is a fucking slime.

What's more, this would mean that he started talking to you online when you were 16, and didn't make his move until you were 17 (which BTW, where do you live where it is Legal for a 30yo to fuck a 17yo? Where do you live where it is legal for a teacher to fuck a student?) That would be called GROOMING. I'm sorry, but you need to come to terms with what was done to you, and you should really thing about doing something to stop this man from hurting anyone else.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

We started talking when I was 17 and had sex for the time when I was still 17 (only a few months before I turned 18). I'm living in Germany were the age of consent is 14 if all involved people are under 18 and 16 no matter the age of the other participants. Exceptions to that rule are situations where one person has a significant power over the other person, so a teacher would be forbidden from having sex with a student.

BUT I think you're overestimating the power imbalance in my case because it was never implied nor did it ever cross my mind that saying no would have any negative consequences. He wasn't my teacher who could give me a bad grade and fuck up my future; he was my trainer and the worst he could have done would have been to fail me in a test. That's a) not that big of a deal b) as I said not something I ever feared.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[dreemyweird]

I think that he does sound like a slime and that what happened may well be considered rape, but it doesn't mean it has hurt the OP. Rape doesn't have to have any sort of serious emotional impact on the victim. What matters is the behaviour of the rapist.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[diet_poison]

This is an incredibly pretentious comment.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[kallanda_lee]

I agree.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[(Anonymous)]

how fucked up of a person do you have to be to feel like you need to force someone to believe that they're a rape victim when they clearly don't feel like they have anything to come to terms with? you're also seriously overestimating the amount of leverage that a martial arts teacher has over someone. he sounds skeevy but there's a difference between skeevy and rapist. not to mention that 17 is a perfectly reasonable age of consent. seriously, what's wrong with you?