[ SECRET POST #2930 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Comments

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

I don't think it was moral at all of the teacher in question to hit on OP, but yeah this anon is a wonderful example of the typical US-centric victim-enforcing SJW mentality :\

"What kind of backwater immoral nation full of rape do you live in where people under 18 can have sex with adults?"
"...Germany?"

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[kallanda_lee]

I'm not talking morality here - hey, if it was me and a 17-year-old kid came to me with problems, I don't think sleeping with them would cross my mind.

But - there's a difference between what's moral and what's legal, and just because something is morally grey doesn't mean there wasn't consent.

Also I remember being 17, and being not-so-innocent DESPITE also self-harming and having mental issues the size of Mexico.
People are not always neatly one thing or another, they are not always perfectly cast in the role of victim or villain. Most people are actually morally grey.

If someone tells me the consented to something, that the did something willingly - I tend to believe them (unless of course the look like they're saying it at gunpoint).

But yeah, I hate how some people insist on pushing people in the victim box. Even young people, even young people in shitty situations are completely capable of making their own decisions. The fact you don't like those decisions is not the point.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[diet_poison]

I agree and I think there is some space between "totally moral" and "rape". I mean, if OP had been the same age as the trainer it still would have been amoral IMO because he was married - but that wouldn't make it rape.

It may/may not have been statutory rape (which is still rape, in a legal sense) but if it wasn't, then it's possible the whole thing wasn't. Maybe it was - maybe OP was groomed and hasn't come to terms with it - but we don't know that from the other side of the screen. This isn't a good situation for jumping to conclusions.