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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-11 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2930 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Re: Anon saying no to pushy friend

(Anonymous) 2015-01-12 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt - It's hard because you feel sorry for her, but here's the problem: no matter how much her life sucks, she crossed a line when she decided to treat her friends (or in this case, friend) badly. You cannot help someone who refuses to see there's a problem. You cannot remain friends with someone who has no idea what friendship is.

If she never wants to meet on neutral ground and always insists that you come over to her place, that makes it easier, not harder. Don't go. Don't offer elaborate explanations, just say, "Can't, sorry." and leave it at that. Hang out with her only if you want to, and only if she behaves herself. If she behaves badly and you reward her with your attention and friendship, all you'll ever get from her is more bad behavior.