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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-12 05:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2931 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2931 ⌋

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Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
"But if someone repeatedly tries to talk to you and you just ignore them, YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE."

No, they're simply exercising their right to choose who they want/don't want to interact with.

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
The tone of the post seems to me to mean someone that the OP has befriended. Obviously someone close enough to be a friend (close relationship). you don't just stop talking to a friend for no reason. and then months later expect them to be hunky dory with you ignoring them for months because you just have a cute [personality trait.

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
it's a little different if they insist they like you tho

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
It still doesn't trump their right to choose who/when/how they interact.

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
still doesn't not make you an asshole for not talking to someone for months with no explanation and no reason.

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
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of course not. they have no obligation to interact with you ever. but at a certain point it becomes harder and harder to believe that they do, in fact, like you. and it's your right to conclude that they're just not that into you. and to some extent, if two people actually want to maintain a relationship, it's on both of them to do so.

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
you can do that, but you're an still an asshole if you say you value someone's friendship and do jackshit to maintain it

Re: Weird things you judge people for?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-13 04:03 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're choosing never to interact with someone, you're not their friend, and should stop insisting that you are.