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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-16 08:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2935 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2935 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ms. Marvel]


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[Paul Hollywood and Mary Berry in The Great British Bake Off]


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[Phylicia Rashad aka Claire Huxtable from The Cosby Show]


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[Harry Potter]


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[The Giver]


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[Laura Pausini & Thalia]


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[Skullgirls]


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[Iain from Great British Bake Off, series 5]


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14. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who ]



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15. [ SPOILERS for Hatoful Boyfriend ]



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16. [ SPOILERS for Transformers: Robots in Disguise 2015 ]



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17. [ SPOILERS for Legend of Korra ]



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18. [ SPOILERS for this ]




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19. [ WARNING for abuse ]




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20. [ WARNING for rape ]
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #419.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Transcript

(Anonymous) 2015-01-17 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
Text: I am an abuse survivor.

I also happen to enjoy unhealthy dynamics in my ships (incest, power imbalances, obsession, hatesex, etc.) I don’t go out of my way to write or look for fics that mirror my experiences, but I can honsestly say if the relationship isn’t unhealthy in some way than I’m most likely not all that interested. It doesn’t have to be blatant or in your face for me to enjoy it. I like fluff with the toxic nature of the relationship lurking on the fringes.

Anyway, the point of this is, I wish people didn’t feel the need to talk over me about this. Spamming up the tags of the ships I follow with nonsense out of some misguided idea that they’re protecting all abuse survivors everywhere by pointing out how ~gross~ and ~problematic~ the ship is. I know that (that’s why I’m here at all) and let me tell you something. You’re not helping. I wouldn’t dream of subjecting another survivor to something that might trigger them, but my responsibility ends after cutting and warning for content. If it’s not your thing or if it triggers you than I absolutely completely 100% understand. I don’t talk over you or for other survivors. I just wish I got the same courtesy.

Sorry for the ugly secret.