[ SECRET POST #2939 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2939 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

No, I didn't confuse it. I'm saying that because those are the only kinds of things listed (even in the variations, aside from the food and dog bits), the discussion about it became essentialistic, about women faking to be dudes. The articles about it, praising it, usually only list women who "tried to act like one of the guys" as the example of Cool Girl. They don't give any other examples, like pretending to be modest and shy, they don't treat it as any pretense to please a guy makes you a Cool Girl. But then comes someone like you saying it's about all pretenses. So it becomes a conversation about two completely different things at the same time.

There are a couple pieces that focus on pretending and being non-confrontational, but those don't point out examples or discuss the limited scope of the examples in the quote or their warped interpretation.

[(Anonymous)]

But those aren't the only kinds of things listed. You stopped reading before the list included a wider variety of things. You stopped reading before the summary, which isn't about things but about patterns of behavior.

You want it to be gender essentialist so you can complain about it.

[(Anonymous)]

No, I'm trying to understand it, not complain about it. It's not my fault every single discussion about it only quotes and discusses that part - in fact, that's exactly the issue I'm pointing out.

Thank you for letting me know the description in the book is a lot better than what people portray it as. That's something I wanted to know. I guess most pieces about Cool Girl were written by people who didn't read the book, then. Good to know.