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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-25 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2944 ]


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Re: I don't know what to do

(Anonymous) 2015-01-25 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh, that's awful.

I think the first thing you need to realize is that there may be nothing you can do.

Repeat after me: You. Are not. Her therapist.

And if she won't go see one, then I think you're right. You should go, just for your own mental health. Because it's not good for you for her stress to be stressing you out. I think it's a excellent idea for you to go yourself.

And, maybe, if she sees you go, it will prod her into going. At the very least, you will get coping mechanisms for yourself. I don't see a bad there.

Re: I don't know what to do

(Anonymous) 2015-01-25 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

Re: I don't know what to do

(Anonymous) 2015-01-25 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
This is excellent, compassionate advice.
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Re: I don't know what to do

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-01-26 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Very good advice. And OP, to add on to the anon above me, going to a shrink can help you set up better boundaries so these sort of situations drain you LESS. It's not just about your roomie, it's about YOU!