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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-25 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2944 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2944 ⌋

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Re: I don't know what to do

(Anonymous) 2015-01-25 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
If you think talking to someone about this would reduce your stress levels, then definitely do so.

Don't, however, fall into the trap where you end up as some middleman between your friend and the therapist. You're not going to talk to them just for them to give you advice about her. That can only happen if she goes herself, which she clearly has no interest in doing -- possibly because right now her behavior is getting the pay-off she wants, be it in attention, avoiding responsibility, whatever it may be.

If you talk to someone, then let it be about how you cope and create space for yourself, don't make it about her problems that she refuses to deal with.