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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-26 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #2945 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2945 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Not a Harem Heaven, It's a Yandere Hell]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[In the Flesh]


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[Hudson Leick as Callisto in Xena, Warrior Princess]


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[Plebcomics]


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[Great British Bake Off]


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[Captain America: The First Avenger]


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[Binan Koukou Chikyuu Bouei-bu LOVE!]


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[Queen]













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Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Am I being selfish/unfair?

(Anonymous) 2015-01-27 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
I think the selfish part is giving excuse after excuse. It's ok to not want to spend the night with someone, but tell him why. You don't have to give him a laundry list of the reasons, but just say you're not comfortable or ready, and you don't know when you would be.

Try going over at different times of day. Maybe you could go for a walk or movie afterwards, instead of coming at night and leaving before morning? Cook a meal? In other words, there are other things you can do that are intimate, without having to stay the night. If you like him and the relationship, work with him to find those things.