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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-26 07:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #2945 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2945 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Not a Harem Heaven, It's a Yandere Hell]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[In the Flesh]


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[Hudson Leick as Callisto in Xena, Warrior Princess]


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[Plebcomics]


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07.
[Great British Bake Off]


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[Captain America: The First Avenger]


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[Binan Koukou Chikyuu Bouei-bu LOVE!]


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[Queen]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 048 secrets from Secret Submission Post #421.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Am I being selfish/unfair?

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2015-01-27 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
Like everyone already said, talk about it with him. Even if this wasn't a serious relationship, you're not doing anyone any favours by saying, "maybe next time," when there is no comfortable maybeing about it. He's asking for a physical intimacy here, and that's not necessarily having to do with sex so much as it is just a regular social want/need. Your wants/needs are just as important too, so it's a good idea to know what exactly is on the table here that has to stay, and if this is going to be a dealbreaker if it's not.

I'm a bit similar to you, except I love sharing a bed and cuddling the fuck out of people and pillows while I sleep. But if I were to pick between sleeping alone, or sharing a bed, and can only stick with that for the rest of my life? I'll sleep alone thanks, now let's call dibs on who gets the bed.