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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-27 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2946 ⌋

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Re: Confessions

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-01-28 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
Do you like him?

Do you want a future with him?

If one or both of those answers is "no" or "I don't know", then you might very well have a point.

Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-01-28 09:07 am (UTC)(link)
I love him so much but is that enough? We have barely anything in common down to our sense of humors. I want to travel, to make things whereas he's happy to keep pottering along in our home town. Ultimately, I wonder if our different priorities will come between us. It's already having an effect on our relationship.

I should qualify this with the fact that I'm a pretty messed up person who has a lot of trouble becoming close to people. He's the sole exception.

Re: Confessions

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-01-29 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
As a unit, do you compromise well? Are your conversations engaging and interesting? Does he cause you to learn more about yourself and vice versa?

Love is a chemical reaction... it doesn't last forever. Attachment and shared values and interests on the other hand, do. If all of the above is true, then maybe it's worth fighting for. If none of the above are true and all you know is that you're in love with him right now...

...I would say in that case the prognosis probably isn't so good. Love alone probably won't be enough to sustain a relationship for the long haul.

Re: Confessions

(Anonymous) 2015-01-29 08:40 am (UTC)(link)
I can't say tbh. Thank you for the advice though. Really appreciate it.