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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-30 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2949 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2949 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Persona 4]


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[Howl's Moving Castle]


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[True Detective]


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[Homestuck]


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[Jane the Virgin]


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(Transformers Armada)


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[Hannibal - Richard Armitage/Lee Pace]


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15. [ SPOILERS for Into the Woods ]



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16. [ SPOILERS for Dragon Age ]













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Re: Fandom friend troubles

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2015-01-31 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
As introvert as you and she sound, imo it's on both of you to initiate and keep in touch. It sucks to feel like you're in a one-sided friendship, and I suppose not being able to see each other face to face exacerbates the misunderstanding of not caring at all. Maybe she does have something else on her plate (irl or not). Maybe it is the case that you two are just losing touch, but what's there to lose in just saying, "Hello! What've you been up to today?" Get out what's on your chest too.

And I get it, about being used to waiting for others to reach out before you. It's comfortable, especially if you don't need much social energy or reassurance. So I'm very good at forgetting to keep up with others, to the point that I'm no longer surprised when those that do no longer keep up with me. I have to remind myself to give as much as I get. Even with friends I made over the internet, and even the ones like you and me.