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And it's worse in the second movie, imo. She plays up the whole I'm a sex addict as an excuse for the previous rapes. And uses coercion again to try and force Day's character, and... ends up admitting to raping him while he was in a coma at the end.

Omg that's awful. It would've still bothered me, but if it had played off as not funny in the first movie, I could've enjoyed the movie more. I just kept getting that "she's hot so you should've liked being raped" vibe from the way it was written. Like, that's what I thought the audience was supposed to be getting out of it-- it was part of the joke.

Yeah, I really wished they hadn't done the whole "but she's so HOT" thing. I think maybe the first movie, that was supposed to be the joke - that the others are confused and pressure Day's character, but... I wonder, maybe the audience as a larger whole didn't get it, because of where they took it in the second movie. :-\ Or the writers just think a female predator/rapist is funny in general, as even at the end -- Charlie Day's character, his wife forgives her at the end and it's a huge joke that the wife and Aniston's character are sleeping together.

Can we not keep calling it rape? please?

Considering that Dale himself calls it rape, I don't see the objection.

How on earth is having sex with someone while they're in a coma not rape?

How is what she did not rape? In the first movie, besides the use of coercion and blackmail, she assaults him while he's under the effects of anesthesia and can't consent. In the second movie, there's coercion and blackmail again, and again, happens when he can't consent.

Where I live, rape is considered a hate crime against women, so depending on where OP lives that might explain it.

Ah, that makes sense, thank you.

Makes sense in terms of it being a legal definition, maybe.

That is so fucking bizarre.

By that reasoning, raping me would be a hate crime... right up until I transitioned at which point it becomes... what? An unfortunate accident?

Man, that's fucking creepy.

--Rogan

That really puts it in perspective.

Like, don't get me wrong, rape can totally be a hate crime, but acting like that's the ONLY thing it can be just seems another excuse to tell rape victims, "Nuh UH! You couldn't have been raped, because [bullshit]!"

--Rogan

And not just the hate crime aspect, but -- even moreso -- the 'women only' aspect.

Yeah. Wondering where that is, that it's been declared a hate crime, because that seems kind of strange, for my country at least.

the issues of rape towards men has contradict itself.

then, rape by fraud nor pass out isn't your legal defense now.

a tough guy always a tough guy.

Dude, I have absolutely NO IDEA what the hell you're trying to say, except that it sounds creepy.

--Rogan

that's ridiculous

that's really not good. What if a woman rapes another woman?

It's considered hate crime against women, not specifically a hate crime by men. women can rape other women, but women cannot rape men.

Well that's good, but it's really bad to have it be law that women can't rape men. It's bad for men, but it's also bad for women, because of the idea that women can only be passive when it comes to sexual interactions between men and women.

but it's also bad for women

As someone who walked away with a suspended sentence from a fucking shit show that could have otherwise landed me in prison, I totally disagree.

I...this is actually really disturbing. Do you not realize what you're saying? Because it sounds an awful lot like you're saying, "I'm glad this law is the way it is because it allowed me to get away with assaulting someone."

Maybe you were falsely accused. But flip the genders there for a second. A lot of men are upset with the laws surrounding rape because of the supposed danger of being falsely accused, but there's no fucking way you'd say the laws are "bad for men" due to that.

No we'll keep calling it that because that's what it is. I don't care what bullshit definitions people come up with for it, it's still rape.

The fact that you're so offended by the idea means you have some serious issues.

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