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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-31 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2950 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2950 ⌋

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Re: Fuck you Fandom secrets.

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-02-01 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
I guess I hadn't thought that far (the extreme discomfort thing) because as far as I've ever heard it's not extreme discomfort. I have no personal experience as such one of several perks of having indoor plumbing! but I've never seen a man claim it's on the level of extreme discomfort or pain.

However, I have experienced having peoples' body parts in my space on public transit - and NOT just men. It's usually men if it's legs, but men and women alike are reckless with their elbows. :/ I really, really do not like it. I wouldn't say it's extreme discomfort, either, though. (Could be if the person was pushy or creepy but I've experienced far more uncomfortable things.)

In an instance where one person's slight discomfort/inconvenience can alleviate another's great discomfort/inconvenience...it kind of depends. Say you're stopped at a traffic light for a minute so one person can make a turn they otherwise would have had to wait ten minutes to make. That's a reasonable expectation - that you'll stop at traffic lights to allow other traffic to pass. But we also have rules that you agree to when you apply for a driver's license. You voluntarily agree to accept those terms. So I'm not sure that's a great example. And the rules of the road have nothing to do with bodily integrity, which in my mind includes personal space. I find it hard to justify ever forcing someone to give up their bodily autonomy for the sake of someone else's comfort.