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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-01 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2951 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2951 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The To-Do List, Brandy/Willy]


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[Avatar: Legend of Korra]


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[The Amazing World of Gumball]


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[Agents of Shield]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Galavant]


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[Soukyuu no Fafner Exodus]


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[Jamie Dornan from "The Fall"]


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(Neil Gaiman)













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Re: Things I feel guilty for thread

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think you're a snob. You just value different things than that first guy did. He isn't necessarily stupid or uneducated because he has typos. He just might not care. But, to you, putting your best foot forward and communicating in an intelligent manner is a priority. It's not for him.

Unless you think you're better than him, you're not a snob. If you looked at his emails and saw that he didn't value how he presents himself to the same degree that you do, I don't think it's a big deal that you're more attracted to someone who follows similar conventions.

Re: Things I feel guilty for thread

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

I think a caveat to that should be that it's no big deal as long as OP doesn't turn around and resent the second guy for doing the same thing to them. Treat others as you want to be treated.

Re: Things I feel guilty for thread

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, the fact that the OP dropped them because "he wasn't as educated as me" really does indicate that OP thought that they were better than that guy simply because of the level of education.

So, in my reading of the confession, OP was definitely being a snob. But I think it's good that OP realizes this.