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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-01 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2951 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2951 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The To-Do List, Brandy/Willy]


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[Avatar: Legend of Korra]


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[The Amazing World of Gumball]


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[Agents of Shield]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Galavant]


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[Soukyuu no Fafner Exodus]


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[Jamie Dornan from "The Fall"]


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(Neil Gaiman)













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Re: Childfree versus not wanting kids?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Childfree communities are typically a mess so I stay away from them BUT before I knew what the people were like I did like the idea of having a community for people who don't have and don't want children.

It's not so much about not wanting something as it is wanting to connect with other people with a similar lifestyle as your own. I like kids and have no problems being friends with parents, but some parents get really wrapped up in it even to the extent that they no longer have any interest in you if you aren't also a parent. It can be really isolating to be single and without children sometimes, not only do I not have a partner, but sometimes I feel like I can't have friends because I don't "fit in."

But like I said most childfree communities are horrendous and all the things you said are accurate, but if there were childfree communities where people just wanted to make some friends, I'd be all for it.