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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-01 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2951 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2951 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The To-Do List, Brandy/Willy]


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[Avatar: Legend of Korra]


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[The Amazing World of Gumball]


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[Agents of Shield]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Galavant]


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[Soukyuu no Fafner Exodus]


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[Jamie Dornan from "The Fall"]


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Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
you think he just broke with you? is this a ross and rachael kind of thing?

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean we got in an argument over him touching me when I'd asked him to stop repeatedly, and he stormed out and blocked me on every social platform we share instead of apologizing when I asked him to.

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe you should be glad to get this guy out of your life?

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-01 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

If it turns out that this wasn't him breaking up with you then I strongly encourage you to break up with him instead. He sounds like a real dick with boundary issues. And going straight to just blocking you on websites instead of talking to you like a normal person makes him sound extremely immature to boot.

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-02 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
+1

He has major issues here. Don't take him back if he tries.
lb_lee: Raige making a horrified face. (D:)

Re: Breakups

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-02-02 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, what a bag of dicksore. If someone freaks out when you ask them not to touch you, that's really creepy.

--Rogan

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-02 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Wow.

That is... really shitty behaviour, anon.

Trust me, there are far better relationships out there. If somebody loves you, then they ought to respect your boundaries. You asked him to stop repeatedly and HE IGNORED YOU, like your opinion doesn't matter, and like YOU don't matter. And then instead of apologizing for what HE did wrong, he has the gall to storm out and block you? As if somehow punishing you?

No, OP. What he did was shitty. He's in the wrong, not you.

You should show this guy to the kerb.

Re: Breakups

(Anonymous) 2015-02-02 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
I am not sure how old this guy is? Either way, nobody needs to be with someone who either can't understand boundaries or can't have a disagreement without shutting them out completely. That's really toxic. I might be slightly more forgiving if he's young, but I'd still recommend thinking very hard about it before taking him back, and absolutely ensure he apologizes AND apologizes for both the touching and his tantrum, and he knows why those are not okay.
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Re: Breakups

[personal profile] pantasma 2015-02-02 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
Good for you!!! Congratulations! It's really damn hard to tell someone to stop when you don't like what's going on, and then ask for an apology. Especially when it's a first relationship. Good for you for standing up for yourself and your comfort.

Yes, the aftermath is gonna suck ass, but you should feel confident to stick to your guns and be proud of yourself for that.