[ SECRET POST #2951 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2951 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The To-Do List, Brandy/Willy]


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[Avatar: Legend of Korra]


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[The Amazing World of Gumball]


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[Agents of Shield]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Galavant]


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[Soukyuu no Fafner Exodus]


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[Jamie Dornan from "The Fall"]


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(Neil Gaiman)













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Comments

Re: Breakups

[(Anonymous)]

As far mutual friends go, just be chill. If you find out he's going to be at some get together, and you don't want to deal with a) your emotions in front him right now, or b) his stuff (bullshit, harassment, whatever) you can tell people you just don't feel comfortable being around him, right now, but thanks for the invite, and plan something else for another time. It's totally ok to not want to be around someone you used to be in a relationship with. Don't make your friends feel like they have to pick sides, and you should be golden.

My first boyfriend and I had a few mutual friends. He started making them pick sides, and was accusing me of taking away all his friends (they went to his high school, he knew them first, hung out with them every day), while I sat back and watched. Honestly, I didn't even talk to them all that much, let alone see them; just my best friend who had joined the group and introduced us all, in the first place. He was being a huge dick to them all because we became friends so quickly, and they all found he was pressuring me for sex (I told my best friend, she spread it around like melted butter). I felt AWFUL for breaking up with him, but I knew i had to for my safety and sanity, and now he was taking his anger and aggression out on everyone around him.

So let your ex do his things, you do yours, and just be the normal friend you are to everyone else. Seriously, you don't have to see him if you don't want to -- and frankly it sounds safer if you don't, if he gets pissed because you don't want to be fondled.

Sorry it went down like that, hon. It's never a good feeling, either physical or emotional.