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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-03 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2953 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2953 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-02-04 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Occasionally you have to tell your friend, no matter how fat and pimply she looks, that she's beautiful

But it's also an act of friendship to tell your friend if she's gotten lipstick on her teeth or w/e. eg, I wouldn't be very impressed with a friend who let me walk around all day with my skirt caught in my underpants or something, even if we were just at my house alone or something where it didn't "matter" and there was no one for me to embarrass myself in front of. Fandom isn't serious business, but it is still public.

I guess it depends how embarrassing OP's friend's fic really is.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-04 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
but there's a vast difference between saying "hey, you got something in your teeth" and "hey, you look really terrible, you should lose weight and you suck at makeup, your hair looks like a dead woodland creature and there is nothing, nothing redeeming about your appearance."

(Anonymous) 2015-02-04 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
lipstick on your teeth or an undone fly is the equivalent to pointing out a typo or a misused word though. It's not even really criticism. A parallel would be pointing out a problem that's difficult and personal to fix, like bad skin or clothes, in a situation where someone is just trying to have fun.