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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-07 04:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2957 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2957 ⌋

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philstar22: (Default)

Re: Questions?

[personal profile] philstar22 2015-02-07 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm of two minds on this. Because on the one hand I do believe there are people that are not monogamous, and I think honesty is so much better than people lying and cheating. But on the other hand, in practice so much of poly is solely about men marrying multiple women (and in contexts where it is not seen as okay for women to do the same) and tied in with a whole bunch of sexism and patriarchy. So I'm not sure I'm against the idea of it being illegal for now even if I do believe that there are people who are legitimately polygamous (and even have considered it myself on occasion).
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Re: Questions?

[personal profile] tabaqui 2015-02-07 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
This. I don't really care if people want to have relationships with one or ten, but it seems like the majority here and around the world are 1 guy = multiple girl, and the women all seem kind of...i dunno.

Like they're 'lucky' to have a tenth of this guy's attention and him having all this support and warm bodies is how it *should* be. Which, yes, broad brush, but it kind of creeps me out.

Maybe if it weren't some formal thing, but just random living, i wouldn't feel that way.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Questions?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-02-08 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
this, plus tax and other legal issues that work much better with just two people, are why I'm on the fence about having legalized poly marriage.

but when I think about the best solution it really goes back to "why is our government regulating marriage at all?"...