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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-07 04:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #2957 ]


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(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
IDK, I would hesitate to state things like this because you're basically saying every couple who somehow loses the ability to have sex is suddenly no longer romantic and just friends.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
But they are still sexually attracted to each other. Just because they can't have sex doesn't erase that/

(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
If they lose their sex drives they're friends? When people get really old and lose the drive, it's no longer romantic love?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

That's actually how a lot of older people would describe their relationships. As time goes on, the traditional definition of romantic love and attraction can and does mellow out into something that's basically just a very deep friendship.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-07 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think we really need to quantify love. They still love one another, they are life partners, they do everything together.... it's not "less" even if it's rarely "romantic" anymore.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
The way you feel for your family is not the same way you feel for your friends. So why is it suddenly so odd that you feel differently for a romantic partner than your friends?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 12:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Absolutely you can love people in different ways, or even in multiple ways. And yes, I would say a romantic relationship is different from a friend relationship... because in romantic relationships, you have sexual attraction.