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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-08 03:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2958 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2958 ⌋

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Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Not dissing your point overall, but that sounds like the most made-up conversation in the world.

Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not OP, but I replied earlier to this thread, and can say I literally had almost the same conversation two days ago on Facebook.

Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-08 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it actually occurred on a forum and it was a couple of people (and I've reworded their points a bit so that you can't search for them).

But these were users I considered friends, that I'd talked to for years, and it kind of hurt to know that this is how they'd judge me if they knew.

Especially because I strongly identify as a feminist but they seem to think that because I have rape fantasies, I'd be the type of person who would try to victim-blame an actual rape victim or insist she wanted it. Which is behavior I find completely and absolutely abhorrent.

I'm just grateful that I didn't tell them I myself have those fantasies and instead kept our conversation in general terms.
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Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

[personal profile] lb_lee 2015-02-09 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, no, I've had this fight before. And I'm a rape survivor.

Because you know, private fantasies are OBVIOUSLY the same as morals. *eyeroll*

--Rogan
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Re: Rape Fantasies and...Rape Apologism?

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2015-02-09 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Not OP, but I still wish that sort of stuff was made-up. :(