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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-10 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2960 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2960 ⌋

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Re: Relationship woes.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-11 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
I am in a long distant relationship with this girl. She told me when we started dating that she wasn't really interested in sex, or at least wasn't in her past relationships. I told her I was cool with that. She is coming to visit me soon, and has told me she thinks she wants to try having sex while she's here. Initially I was excited about that but now that its almost here I'm freaked out as fuck by it. I've never been in a relationship before and I'm a virgin, so I'm freaked out in that regard, but I'm more freaked out that maybe she doesn't actually want sex with me and is just humoring me, or that she will try it and decides she hates it, and I think that would make me feel worse than if we never had it.

We haven't been dating that long but I quite like her and don't want this to get messed up? It doesn't help that my anxiety makes me over think absolutely everything.

Re: Relationship woes.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-11 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? Why on earth would SHE suggest the idea if she doesn't want to try it?

Sounds like your anxiety talking to you, anon.

It's no big deal. If she decides when she gets there that she's not up for it, then it won't happen. Or maybe she'll decide she IS up for it, and you'll both have a great time.

Either way - she's in a relationship with you because she wants to be with you. This is no indictment of you.