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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-10 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2960 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2960 ⌋

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Re: Relationship woes.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-11 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I "deal with it" even when I don't have to. I came out to my mom as bi while I was in a relationship with a guy. It didn't go well at all but I don't regret it. I never let anyone think I'm straight while I'm dating guys. Why? Because being bi is important to me. And when I'm dating women, I most certainly don't think "nah, this is too hard, I'm just gonna dump her for a guy and pass as straight."

Your girlfriend loves *you* - she doesn't want to trade you for a generic guy and an easier life. It seems you're having confidence issues, so I can see why you'd assume she doesn't value you like that. I'm sure she wishes she could be with you and not have to deal with homophobia, of course.