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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-17 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2967 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-02-18 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
It's not that it's not romance, it's that its porn with romance

There are literally women on the news denying that it's fantasy porn at all and it's ~just a love story

Then can you blame other dumb people for asking if this is what all women secretly want, when you have all these actual women refusing to label their rape fantasy as rape fantasy because rape is love?
blitzwing: ([magi] aladdin)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-02-18 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Then can you blame other dumb people for asking if this is what all women secretly want, when you have all these actual women refusing to label their rape fantasy as rape fantasy because rape is love?

Yes, I can blame them? Some people want their face shit on. Other people obviously don't. A few people's inability to accurately label their fantasies doesn't mean everyone does that.

Making generalizations "Oh some people are like this, so everyone is like this" is generally a pretty ignorant and worthless action.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-18 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
It's not about people thinking all women are kinky, it's about people assuming women think this is ~just a love story romance because so many women on TV are saying it is and acting like ravishment fantasy has nothing to do with it at all

I have yet to hear anyone on mainstream media simply admit it's a ravishment fantasy and ask what the problem with ravishment fantasy is. There isn't one. But nobody is calling the fantasy the fantasy except in internet circles where everyone knew of it already
blitzwing: ([Naruto] kages)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-02-18 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
it's about people assuming women think this is ~just a love story romance because so many women on TV are saying it is and acting like ravishment fantasy has nothing to do with it at all

Maybe you're right anon. I think I've just internalized that "GENERALIZING IS THE DUMBEST THING IN THE WORLD DON'T EVER DO IT!!!" that I just forget how acceptable and common it is to most people. Blegh. [Not implying you, btw, just that not!generalizing seems to be the exception rather than the rule.]

I haven't really followed mainstream coverage of the book. While I support OP's enjoyment of the book, I don't like it myself and it rustles my jimmies to see it so popular. So I just try to avoid any mention of it.
Edited 2015-02-18 01:35 (UTC)