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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-17 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2967 ⌋

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[personal profile] sarillia 2015-02-18 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I used to be the same way. There are dozens of replies, at the very least, that I have never looked at because I didn't want to deal with them. Over time I just kind of stopped caring about people disagreeing with me, through a combination of letting it sink in that I'm a minuscule part of the lives of the people who are disagreeing with me and they have so many better things to think about than what I said, learning to separate what people are saying about my words from what they think about me, and focusing on how fascinating I find thinking about different points of view is. Obviously that last one isn't going to work for everyone because that could just be me being odd, but the first two are things I think a lot of overly anxious people can benefit from.