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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-17 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2967 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2967 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-02-18 10:19 am (UTC)(link)
I've been consistently apalled over the years (long before 50SOG was a thing) by people who are unwilling or unable to understand that "it's a fantasy of mine" ≠ "it's something I'd [secretly] like to happen for real [if only it were possible]". Fandom's actually mostly okay in that regard - people who have been active as readers/writers in any sort of porn-writing community for a year or two usually understand that these two things do not necessarily overlap. People not in fandom? - I've found very often do not get this.

So saying "it's just fantasy!" isn't entirely helpful. A lot of people will continue to believe that what "fantasy" means in this context is that it's impossible/vanishingly unlikely to ever happen - not that, while it can be something you [generic you] may get off to reading about, it is still something you would never want to happen in a million years. So when the "fantasy" is an abusive relationship that ignores one partner's lack of consent more often than not, I'd be much more appalled if people weren't up in arms about it.