[ SECRET POST #2967 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2967 ⌋

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Comments

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not trying to internet-doctor, but it really sounds like you have an anxiety disorder going on and it might be worth following up with a professional and seeing what they think.

That level of fear isn't normal. Heck, I can even pretty easily chart my anxiety with how easy it is to post something online, or reply to something. Bad days I have a dozen windows open with things I'll never post. Not even controversial things, just stuff like this.

Good days I'll post a dozen things and reply to dozens more.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

FWIW, I agree with this comment. When my anxiety is spiking I agonize over even the quickest, most neutral post; when I'm feeling better I look forward to seeing replies in my inbox and going back and forth.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

What would you say about some who has no issue commenting anon, but agonizes and over any comment logged in? I don't care at all about back or disagreements anon, but I get really stressed over those when I use an account. It got to the point where I could only leave really vanilla, positive comments without worrying.

If you don't feel comfortable about playing internet doctor, I understand.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

Not playing internet doctor, but thought I'd share my experience because I do the same thing. I feel much less stressed out by being anon, whether I'm expressing a dissenting opinion, expressing an opinion at all, or even just making comments like this one where I'm being honest about my own behaviors.

I do have an anxiety disorder which is linked to poor self-image and feelings of worthlessness, so I've come to the conclusion that the anon vs. logged in thing comes from a place of deep insecurity and a deep, deep lack of self-belief and sense that nothing I say has any worth whatsoever.

I've been raised to believe that everyone is judging me, all the time, and one false step will make everyone hate me. If I make a mistake, it's all over. If I come across as anything less than composed and unaffected, then I am ashamed. If I committed those errors under a name, then that brings with it shame and (like OP, I guess) the feeling that you'd have to just abandon that entire identity because there would be no coming back from it. It would haunt you forever, you'd always be "that person who did/said that one thing that time."

If I speak anon, like this, then I am just a random voice. There's no image to associate with, there's no reputation to worry about. On the flip side, there's no standing up for the things I believe in, or standing behind my opinions in a way that potentially has something to lose. So while I feel very liberated by going anon, there are times when I've wanted to say "hey this is me, and I stand by what I'm saying because it's important to me!" but the anxiety and fear makes that risk seem way, way too great.

I don't know if it's something similar for you, but I guess consider whether the shame/insecurity thing is a factor, maybe?