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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-22 03:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2972 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2972 ⌋

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Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Why would we?

You've seen how many people in fandom make post after post about their depression and social anxiety and how terrible it is for them and how ashamed they are over every little thing they do wrong? Narcissists don't have that problem. Life is always good and you always feel good about yourself, when you're a narcissist. There is no better coping method for any shit you go through in your life than narcissism.

If you mean: can narcisissts learn to not be dicks to other people? Sure! Ain't that hard to be generous, when life feels good and you feel good about yourself. Plus, you get to have even more reasons for smug satisfaction when you can add "good friend" and "kind to strangers" to the long list of your virtues.

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
you are a horrifying person and I hope you find weevils in your cornflakes
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Re: Narcissism

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-02-23 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
lol, can this be the new "step on a lego"?

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I can add a "not an asshole who wishes harm on people, who have never done them wrong" to my list of virtues, thanks!

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't sound like a narcissist. You sound like someone who is trying to sound like a narcissist, without knowing what the real personality disorder is like.

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I suspect one of my brothers has the actual narcissistic personality disorder, and I would not call him a happy person.

He has his manic moments of near glee, sure, and yet... when his attitude inevitably sours his relationships (personal and work-related) it wrecks him.

It haunts him that he cannot keep a romantic partner or a job/career for too long and, while I'm not sure to what degree he is capable of genuine, selfless love, if at all, I do know him well enough to know that he feels like he's failed at life when those things happen.

It's like he does want to change, but at the same time doesn't.

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Troll in the dungeon!

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
To run counter all of the shitty replies you're bound to get* let me just say

Life is always good and you always feel good about yourself, when you're a narcissist

Needs to be turned into a Disney musical number

*(Seriously, not even looking. betting there's a lot of talking down to you, talking like you don't matter and attempts to shame you. Easy mode, I know, this is the internet after all, but I would put this months wages on it.)

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
No. We're telling them they're not really a narcissist and don't really know what it is to be one.

I mean, c'mon guys, would it hurt you to actually look up the disorder you're pretending to have before pretending to have it?

Re: Narcissism

(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
Annnd you're someone who doesn't actually know what narcissistic personality disorder involves.