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fandomsecrets2015-02-22 03:37 pm
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Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)You've seen how many people in fandom make post after post about their depression and social anxiety and how terrible it is for them and how ashamed they are over every little thing they do wrong? Narcissists don't have that problem. Life is always good and you always feel good about yourself, when you're a narcissist. There is no better coping method for any shit you go through in your life than narcissism.
If you mean: can narcisissts learn to not be dicks to other people? Sure! Ain't that hard to be generous, when life feels good and you feel good about yourself. Plus, you get to have even more reasons for smug satisfaction when you can add "good friend" and "kind to strangers" to the long list of your virtues.
Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Narcissism
Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)He has his manic moments of near glee, sure, and yet... when his attitude inevitably sours his relationships (personal and work-related) it wrecks him.
It haunts him that he cannot keep a romantic partner or a job/career for too long and, while I'm not sure to what degree he is capable of genuine, selfless love, if at all, I do know him well enough to know that he feels like he's failed at life when those things happen.
It's like he does want to change, but at the same time doesn't.
Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 12:12 am (UTC)(link)Life is always good and you always feel good about yourself, when you're a narcissist
Needs to be turned into a Disney musical number
*(Seriously, not even looking. betting there's a lot of talking down to you, talking like you don't matter and attempts to shame you. Easy mode, I know, this is the internet after all, but I would put this months wages on it.)
Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 02:04 am (UTC)(link)I mean, c'mon guys, would it hurt you to actually look up the disorder you're pretending to have before pretending to have it?
Re: Narcissism
(Anonymous) 2015-02-23 02:00 am (UTC)(link)