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It's kinda weird and I'm not sure why that happened. He was also pretty weird (to me at least) about his approach to religion overall.
I kinda like that my family was never like that. We've all formed our own beliefs, and while our parents' beliefs/lack thereof has influenced what we were exposed to, we still made our own personal decisions about what information to pursue and what to do with it once we had it.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)But from atheism suddenly to Christianity? That seems a lot more jarring. No religion to suddenly everyone has one. idk.
My parents were like yours though, I think. They tried to encourage us to find our own faiths, and didn't bring us to church or anything, but encouraged us to learn about religions. We all ended up atheist, but you know, I like that we got there on our own.
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i'm prob assuming too much, but i did assume op actually meant agnosticism.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)On the other hand, probably a case of don't feed the trolls? I hope.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-22 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)(and yes, an atheist is still an atheist even if they are humor that there might be some remote possibility that a god or gods could exist, if they still reject the belief as being unfounded and don't have an active belief in the supernatural themselves)
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Lol. Don't tell that to my Catholic ex. (We didn't date for very long...)
I went to a couple really relaxed churches, one of which I wouldn't even qualify as a "church", I don't think. Didn't have a lot of dogma growing up, I think, compared to some of my peers.
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It's frustrating to me how different denominations want to think they are the One True ChristianityTM. I'm glad the only denomination I've ever identified with is Quakerism, which arguably isn't a denomination at all, and I'm quite content to just be nondenominational right now. People are really good at missing the forest for the trees (their own special trees which are of course the only true and right trees).
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At least half the USA Catholics I know (if not more), don't believe half the dogma, don't go to church regularly, etc, but they still call themselves Catholics, or at least identify as Catholic? It's almost like a sort of Judaism where you're Jewish because you were born Jewish rather than your actual beliefs and/or practices.
I went to mass for Ash Wednesday and actually ran into a friend who I had NO IDEA was Catholic, and we were both like "yeah. we don't go to mass as often as we should, disagree with a lot of the church teaching, but in the end we're Catholic." And then we talked about how much more awesome the service music was in the 90's.
But on the flip side, I do have a couple family members who are a lot more hardcore, don't believe in abortion or gay rights (and at least one uncle who I think is against birth control due to how many children he has, which even my GRANDPARENTS have sarcastically commented on), and then I read about shit going down in places like Argentina and the Philippines, and then I'm reminded just how schism'ed the church really is.
The recent American nun controversies I think display it the best:
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2010/05/21/catholic-nuns-go-rogue.html
http://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2014/09/09/under-pope-francis-vatican-criticisms-of-american-nuns-keep-coming
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It may have to do with some of the rituals practiced within the church (such as baptizing infants and various other stages of recognition for children), or it may just be a social thing, but you don't see this nearly as much with other Christian denominations - if someone says "my family is Christian" they typically mean most or some or maybe one parent or something like that, and it doesn't necessarily imply that they are also Christian. But with Catholicism it kinda does.