[ SECRET POST #2972 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2972 ⌋

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Comments

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[(Anonymous)]

OP & ayrt

I can see the appeal in both- and both can get filthy in different ways- but that's the thing, they're two completely different genres. Saying one is more realistic and better than the other is like saying sci fi is more realistic than fantasy which is irrelevant because both are fucking made up and it's stupid to seriously judge someone for liking one more than the other

"Realistic" is bullshit in either case

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[tabaqui]

Yup. That's why i get so annoyed with people who agitate for big, long scenes in kink-fic about consent, and safe words, and blah blah blah. If that's *part of the kink*, sure, go for it. But if i ask you for 1000 words of dirtybadwrong spanking and orgasm denial, knock it off with the 'are you okay?' every two sentences and gimme some damn spankings! Or whatever.

Porn /= reality, and that's kinda the point.

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Lol, that's kind of funny if you think about it like the old joke. The masochist says spank me and the sadist says no

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[tabaqui]

Heeeee!

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[(Anonymous)]

Also, realistically if you're doing that kinda thing, you don't want your partner constantly saying "are you okay." That can ruin a scene, because while you're being spanked and dominated, you want to be spanked and dominated. If you wanted someone to be all caring and loving during sex, well, that's the kind of sex you'd be having!

"Are you okay" is for aftercare, and for if the safe word is used. I feel like people who write kink that way feel like they have to write it for some reason but don't actually understand it at all.

Re: "omg slash is so unrealistic"

[tabaqui]

Exactly. It seems to me you set up your ideas/needs/boundaries *beforehand*, and then you go for it. Obviously, if there's an issue or something, that is what the safeword or whatever is for. But the continuous questioning *during* always made me think that a) the person writing wasn't sure of what they were writing and/or b) the 'dom' in the story was very, very, very inexperienced.