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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-26 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2976 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2976 ⌋

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[Homestuck]


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[NCIS: Los Angeles/Hawaii Five-0]


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[Left Shark (Katy Perry? Super Bowl?) and Bad-Dragon .com]


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ayrt

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Because I'm not sexually attracted to the V. I like the D. It's how I get off sexually. That's where my sexual orientation, what I am attracted to for sex, lies.

My romantic orientation is for both. I fall in love more easily with other women than I do men, but I'm not turned off from a romantic relationship by one or the other and frankly enjoy it more than I do sex most of the time.

I really don't see why this is hard to understand. Sex and Love/Romance are not the same thing and are not always connected to one another. Someone having sex with 20 people over the course of however long does not mean that they are in love with all 20 of those people (if any of them). They could easily just like to sleep around because they like sex and there's no attachment involved. Well, the reverse is true as well. There are people out there who date and get into relationships with other people that they genuinely care for, have a connection with, and don't necessarily have any sexual attraction for. Asexuals are the biggest example group I can think of.

Not being sexually attracted to someone =/= not being romantically attracted to them