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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-26 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2976 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2976 ⌋

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[Homestuck]


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[NCIS: Los Angeles/Hawaii Five-0]


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[Left Shark (Katy Perry? Super Bowl?) and Bad-Dragon .com]


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(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 02:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Isn't qp cuddling and kissing but no sex?
More than what friends usually do but not lovers?

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 03:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, my understanding is it's somewhere between friendship and romance. People seem to make fun of it/get pissed off when it's mentioned, but I do think it's a valid thing because it's different from both friendship and romance (at least as I understand it) but it could use a different name, since I think that's mostly the problem people have with it (calling it "queer" anything isn't exactly appropriate for something that can be between opposite sex people). I think people that use the term claim the queer is for the original meaning, like "weird/unusual" rather than LGBT-related, but I can definitely see why it would bother people.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
well, I'd define it as the gross appropriation of the word queer, personally.

Also, for what it's worth, I cuddle and kiss several of my close friends. The cuddling is definitely platonic, and the kisses friendly. That doesn't make it queer. (though I am queer, and actual real queer, not the tumblr kind)

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty much.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I cuddle and kiss my best friends. Many, usually non-Anglos, do.