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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-27 07:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2977 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2977 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Paul Darrow]


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[Dragon Age: Inquisition]


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(Bee and Puppycat)


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[Joan Watson, Elementary]


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(Marvel's Agents of Shield)


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[One Piece]


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[Noah Emmerich, The Americans]


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[Teen Wolf]


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15. [ WARNING for rape ]



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16. [ WARNING for dubcon? ]










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Re: confessions

[personal profile] purpleseas 2015-02-28 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
When everyone tells you over and over that you'll change your mind, it's hard not to take that in and be scared that they're right. Most of them mean well and simply can't understand that not everyone has the same feelings about kids and family life that they do, but the ones who get the most ridiculous about it tend to be the ones who regret having kids themselves and are just looking for validation. I'm not saying this is you, but I've known a lot of people who said they didn't like kids and happily had them anyway (lots of them still don't like other people's kids lol), so I think it has to be more about you personally than about kids in general. There's a real difference between "kids are [negative thing] so I don't want any" and "I don't want to be a mother." When you know for sure that that's not a role you want to play or the kind of life you want to live, you get more certain about your decision as you get older, not less. I'm 40 now and knew I wasn't cut out for motherhood, or even interested in it beyond the gauziest "oh I'd name my kid that" daydreams, from a very young age. To regret it at 50 or 60, I'd have to become a completely different person.